Blood Tests.

I am sure the prem mothers reading this blog can identify to the heartbreaking scream of our prem babies who are usually pricked several times a day for blood testing.

This was the one daily routine that would leave me feeling helpless. I was unable to do anything except gently touch my prem through the humidicrib as doctors would try to find a vein to take the blood.

Well, today, nearly 5 and half years later, these same feelings came back.

We have had some concerns with Kye's health and we are in the midst of finding out what is really going on in his body. Blood tests are one way of finding the answers.

This morning we prepared Kye for the test and placed a numbing patch over his arm to hopefully ease the pain. We bribed him with the outcome of buying a beanie kid after the test and assured him it will be over and done with quickly.

As I sat on the clinical bed with Kye, my heart started racing. I looked at my little boy who was smiling at this point whilst the nurse was trying to find a vein in his tiny arm. This took some time as his veins are significantly small due to the size of his body. As he laid down to begin the process of taking the blood. He took my hand and squeezed it tight. He was trying so hard to be brave and whispered "Mum, its starting to hurt". My eyes welled up with tears. For a moment, everything in the room stood still except for my thoughts.

This was my moment to reassure him and be his strength. I could not let him see my tears at this time, as these were tears from the past, not the present. He was looking to me for strength.

I quickly swallowed my tears and smiled. I held his hand tight and told him how brave he was and that it was all going to be over in a minute. We talked about the beanie kid he was going to buy. He even tried to negotiate two bears, which made me laugh! No doubt about him.

The nurses were so proud of him! He walked out of the surgery so chuffed with himself that he had got through his worse fear. I was so proud of my little man. He has become such a strong, brave survivor of all areas of his life thus far.

Its not only prem mums that need a hug...

I had a great day out with a girlfriend yesterday who just graduated as a midwife. She was filling me in on all the stories from special care.

There were some sad stories and some fantastic outcomes with prem babies, which is always great to hear. However, there were other stories that came from full term births with traumatic outcomes.

No woman starts her pregnancy thinking there will be complications and no mother wants plans to be in special care. For the prem mums, we sometimes have warnings along the way or for an early labour, we sometimes have a few moments to grasp reality and get ready for the rocky road ahead.....

But for the mother who has an uncomplicated pregnancy and birth to then find herself in special care with a full term baby would be an utter shock.

My midwife friend has seen many of these mothers in special care. From us prem mums, we send our thoughts, love and prayers. There will be hard days and there will be joyous days. Its a rollercoaster ride. Hold on to your loved ones and take one step at a time.

Five Premmie Babies.....

Last night I was flicking around on the tv and I came across a moving, emotional story on 60 Minutes of two women who have just had five premmie babies. The story followed them from the moment of conception to the dramatic twist of an early labour and delivering five beautiful, tiny babies.

For us mothers who have had our emotional, heart renching times with one or two premmie babies, we can understand a fifth of these mothers emotional roller coaster with five babies in special care. All of the babies weighed less than a 1kg.

It is a must see - http://sixtyminutes.ninemsn.com.au/

What amazing women! We wish you and your beautiful babies a healthy, happy and fulfilling life. Just wait till you get these beautiful babies home. You have so much to look forward to!

Motivating Mums

I was recently contacted by a fabulous woman by the name of Ali Price. Ali has created an inspiring business in Oz and the UK in which she motivates and supports mums in business. A great concept.

Ali asked me to make a few notes on being mentored by a mentor in business and in life, as well as the opportunity to work together on some future projects.

Here is the link - enjoy!
http://www.motivatingmum.com/wp/?p=517