Its not only prem mums that need a hug...

I had a great day out with a girlfriend yesterday who just graduated as a midwife. She was filling me in on all the stories from special care.

There were some sad stories and some fantastic outcomes with prem babies, which is always great to hear. However, there were other stories that came from full term births with traumatic outcomes.

No woman starts her pregnancy thinking there will be complications and no mother wants plans to be in special care. For the prem mums, we sometimes have warnings along the way or for an early labour, we sometimes have a few moments to grasp reality and get ready for the rocky road ahead.....

But for the mother who has an uncomplicated pregnancy and birth to then find herself in special care with a full term baby would be an utter shock.

My midwife friend has seen many of these mothers in special care. From us prem mums, we send our thoughts, love and prayers. There will be hard days and there will be joyous days. Its a rollercoaster ride. Hold on to your loved ones and take one step at a time.